When do you breakup your relationship?

 Over the past 2 years, one of the most important lessons on relationships that I’ve learnt is that it is a lot of work. It requires effort to initiate, maintain and terminate. The sum total of these efforts has resulted in unprofitable ...




True love is hard!

The best romantic stories and movies of all time always had an element of sadness, struggle and pain. It was and has never been easy. Even the bible says the greatest love of all is displayed when a man lays down his ...

Twice Friendzoned forever shy

Ok here i am in the friendzone again 🙁 how did i end up here? what have i done wrong this time ?,
this are the questions I ask myself, and then I conclude I have definitely been cursed or its ...

Conflicts in Relationships

Two different people with different point of views and different upbringing come together as one. They want to look together in the same direction, they want to share the same passions and they want to fulfill a shared dream.

In truth there ...

Weight on my heart: Should I continue to wait?

I got this letter from a lady seeking advice (the letter has been edited for clarity sake):

Mail: I am a young lady that works in a good organisation. Two years ago, I became pregnant for an engineer. I dated this engineer for ...

The Art of Letting Go

Alright! Alright!! You’re upset, low in spirit and messed up. He betrayed your love, he never respected your feelings and all, blah! Blah!! And you want to die. Hunnie, I’ve been there before and trust me, you’re going to end up in ...

Ladies, make up your mind!

Are you one of the girls who wants to eat her cake and have it? You want another single guy but still hold on to your boyfriend. You don’t want to cheat and yet you don’t want to let go? You say ...




I think my partner is selfish!

She is a taker; an unashamed one at that. She keeps asking and asking without giving anything. She wants the world for her birthday but cannot even give her time on his birthday.

He’s a selfish dude. He wants her to be ...

Ranting about cheating

“You don’t have to have sex to cheat. If you find yourself deleting texts, you’re probably almost there.”

“Anybody who is ‘proud’ to not be a cheat is retarded. It’s like being proud of not being a murderer. You just don’t kill ...

Friends With benefits: The Five Golden Rules

Are you thinking of starting a friends with benefits (FWB) type of relationship? You can have your cake, and eat it, too but it can turn into a nightmare if not handled correctly. The Urban Dictionary defines friends with benefits as Two ...

Ode to Nice Guys

This is a tribute to the nice guys. The nice guys that finish last, that never become more than friends, that endure hours of whining and bitching about what assholes guys are, while disproving the very point. This is dedicated to those ...