I am a young lady,working in a good organisation.2 years ago i became pregnant for an engr,myself and this guy dated for 2 yrs before i became pregnant.I notify him of this pregnancy after the confirmation and he denied it.He accepted it latter,after i gave birth to a baby boy in Nov.last year after so many pleading form his sisters and mum.My problem is, he only accepted the fatherhood,he does not want to take any responsibility at all.I have been personally taking care of the baby.He is not talking about marriage either, despite the fact that his mum has been putting pressure on him to settle down with me.My son is 1 year and 1 month now,I need to move forward.Should I continue to wait or I should move on with my life.Please,I need your advice.

I think you should move on with your life. He has accepted nothing if the does not take a shared responsibility for raising the child. Besides, do you want to settle down with a man for the rest of your life that is unwilling to settle down? I don't think you will be happy in that relationship. Being a single mum will make marriage with another guy more difficult but not impossible. I will advise that you raise your son in the best possible way ever and move on with your life to make a better tomorrow. Don't be shackled down by his irresponsibility. A day will come when he'll look back and wish he had acted differently.