by pippa on Wed Dec 09, 2009 9:09 pm
When I took a shot at the equation above and said that eliminating XYZ's Second Friend will save the friendship, I was referring to the friendship with the guy's second friend. It should not matter to guy how his second friend is involved with XYZ's Second Friend. The mere fact that one's friend is involved with a girl to whom one harbors some attraction should be enough of a deterrent to stay away from that girl out of respect/loyalty to one's friend.
If girl in above equation wants to pursue guy, then she has to break up with guy's second friend and guy should play no role in this. Of course, guy would have had to eliminate XYZ way before this happens.