I'v been a dating a guy for almost two years now, everything seems to be fine until few months back when he received a letter from the immigration office he needs to the country, he has been locked up now for 6 weeks and as his girlfriend i'v been trying all best including paying his lawyer with my salary and running here and there to make things work out. as it is now things are getting more complicated and i am sick and tired of pple interrogating abt who am i to him. At the moment i can't even concentrate with my studies and work anymore. When ever he calls all does is command me to go places for him, and sometimes i feel i'm been used, he doesn't seem to care about what i am going through. Although before the incident i noticed that attitude and i was hoping to discuss it with him. I am confused i don't know what to do anymore...

Since it's something that you noticed before the all issue, I don't think it's as a result of his present troubles. The next time he calls, I think it's best you listen to him. When he's done, you can calmly tell him how you feel. He should know how to show appreciation