by Tayogirl on Mon Feb 08, 2010 9:42 am
I am 100% against it, staying with a man before he marries you is a recipe for heart break, i call it free wife, you do everything for him for free, at the end he will leave you at the launch, you will start all over again. No matter how desperate you are, living together before marriage is not an option, besides both of you are suppose to be eager to get married so that you can be together every nite and day, not just getting married for formality sake, becos you have already enjoyed the joy of marriage before the marriage, also in the sight of God and even men you are just an illegal mistress, you have absolutely no right to anything that belongs to the man, you are just a glorified house maid.